March 13 – The Illusion of Busyness
In running from loneliness, I create all types of activity to distract me. Mark Ritchie
Gregg’s Reflection
For many years, I wore busyness like a badge of honor. My calendar was crammed, my to-do list overflowing, my mind constantly racing to the next task. I told myself this was a sign of importance, productivity, even faithfulness. Yet under the surface, my drivenness masked a deep insecurity — the fear that if I slowed down, I would be exposed as not enough. It wasn’t just about getting things done; it was about proving my worth.
When I began exploring the contemplative path, I realized that my busyness was not always about love or service, but often about avoidance. Activity kept me from facing the deeper questions about who I was and why I mattered. I was so accustomed to being “needed” that I rarely stopped to ask whether God had actually called me to all the things I was doing.
The truth is, much of what we call busyness is simply distraction with a spiritual veneer. It feels virtuous because it looks productive. But beneath it, our hearts may be restless and our spirits weary. God is not impressed with our overloaded schedules — He’s interested in our surrendered hearts.
Scripture
Be still, and know that I am God.
Psalm 46:10
Ancient Quotes
Rest from all unnecessary thoughts and activities, so that your soul may be ready to receive the grace of God.
Theophan the Recluse, The Spiritual Life and How to Be Attuned to It
Modern Quotes
Prayer is not a way of being busy with God instead of with people. In fact, it unmasks the illusion of busyness, usefulness, and indispensability. It is a way of being empty and useless in the presence of God and so of proclaiming our basic belief that all is grace and nothing is simply the result of hard work.
Henri Nouwen, Nouwen Society Daily Devo, 5/13/22
Busyness is not of the devil; it is the devil. It separates us from God, from one another, and from our own soul.
Corrie ten Boom
In running from loneliness, I create all types of activity to distract me.
Mark Ritchie, in Spiritual Direction session
Journaling Prompts
- What role does busyness play in your life right now?
- How much of your activity flows from calling, and how much from compulsion?
- What fears or insecurities surface when you consider slowing down?
- Where might God be inviting you to choose stillness over activity today?
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