November 2 – When Words Are Given
Our speech is not simply our own; it is the Spirit who teaches us to speak in the moment, often with words we did not know we had. Henri Nouwen
Gregg’s Reflection
I’ve often hesitated to speak about my faith, worried that I might say the wrong thing, come across as pushy, or fail to answer someone’s real question. But Jesus’ words in Matthew 10 are both comforting and freeing: “Do not worry about how you are to speak or what you are to say, for what you are to say will be given to you at that time.”
That changes everything. Witnessing is not about having the perfect argument prepared, but about trusting that God can speak through us in the moment. My role is not to impress or persuade, but simply to be open and available. God doesn’t need an attorney to defend him, just a witness to how God’s love touches and changes us.
Once, I was on retreat near Savannah, and was preaching the next morning at a church where I was doing some visioning. In my quiet time, I asked, “God, give me a word.” In a bit, God gave me three words: Last Word Man. Those words blossomed into one of the most impactful teaching I’ve done.
I can think back on times when I’ve stumbled into a conversation and words came that I didn’t plan. Looking back, I realize they weren’t my words at all. They were given. The Spirit was faithful. And often, the person I was speaking with heard exactly what they needed, not because of my eloquence, but because God provided.
Scripture
Do not worry about how you are to speak or what you are to say; for what you are to say will be given to you at that time. For it is not you who speak, but the Spirit of your Father speaking through you.
Matthew 10:19–20
I will give you words and a wisdom that none of your adversaries will be able to resist or contradict.
Luke 21:15
Ancient Quotes
Do not make long speeches, but let your words be few and full of meaning. Do not try to impress with eloquence, but with your life, that the Spirit may confirm your words.
The Didache (Early Church Manual, 1st century)
The one who speaks in Christ lets the Spirit speak through him; the one who speaks from himself does not give life.
Irenaeus, Against Heresies
Modern Quotes
Our speech is not simply our own; it is the Spirit who teaches us to speak in the moment, often with words we did not know we had.
Henri Nouwen, Life of the Beloved
The real question is not, ‘What shall I say?’ but, ‘Am I available for God to use me in this moment?’
Richard Rohr, Falling Upward
Journaling Prompts
- When have I experienced words coming to me in the moment that I hadn’t planned?
- What fears keep me from trusting that the Spirit can and will provide words when needed?
- How might I shift from preparing “perfect answers” to preparing my heart to be available?
- Who in my life might need a Spirit-given word of encouragement or witness today?
Go deeper into this week’s theme:
Read the full Week 44 Reflection: Teaching/Proclaiming/Witnessing