October 18 – The Path with a Heart
The only path worth taking is the one with a heart. If it has heart, the path is good; if not, it is useless. Don Juan
Gregg’s Reflection
Years ago, I read Carlos Castaneda’s The Teachings of Don Juan. In those pages, Don Juan’s simple yet piercing counsel struck me deeply: “The only path worth taking is the one with a heart.” That wisdom lodged in me, and I committed myself from that point forward to seek only the path with a heart.
Looking back, I realize that this commitment became a turning point. Some of the roads I had walked before—driven by success, approval, or habit—left me restless and unsatisfied. But choosing to seek the path with a heart gave me a compass for discerning where God was leading me. The scriptures echo this wisdom: to walk in love is to walk in the way of Christ.
Over time, I discovered that the path with a heart is not about clarity of outcomes or worldly achievement—it is about presence. It is about walking with God who is Love, and allowing that Love to shape each step. On this path, longing becomes gift, restlessness becomes energy, and ache becomes joy. It is the way that leads us to fullness of life.
Scripture
Walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.
Ephesians 5:2
You show me the path of life. In your presence there is fullness of joy; in your right hand are pleasures forevermore.
Psalm 16:11
Ancient Quotes
Do not go outside yourself, but return within, for truth dwells in the inner man; and if you find your nature mutable, transcend yourself. But remember, when you transcend yourself, you are transcending a soul that reasons. Reach, then, to where the light of reason is kindled.
Augustine, On True Religion, ch. 39
Modern Quotes
Spiritual life is not about climbing ladders of success but about walking a path of love, slowly learning to let that love guide every step.
Henri Nouwen, Lifesigns, p. 58
Journaling Prompts
- Recall a time when you chose a path that lacked “heart.” What did you learn from it?
- How do you sense God nudging you toward a path with a heart today?
- What practices help you discern whether your steps are being guided by love?
- Where does your longing for “more” intersect with the invitation to walk in love?
Go deeper into this week’s theme:
Read the full Week 42 Reflection: Soul Yearnings/Thirst for God